Kamis, 13 Mei 2010

Personal Interest & Fun

All people want to be called exciting, the center of attention, well-known and admired by many people. Become interesting and fun is the obsession of most people. Interesting and enjoyable aspects of physical (surface) and non-physical (includes: emotional, personality and personal integrity). Many people are beautiful, handsome, clever and rich but not be categorized as the people who interesting and fun because of something missing in themselves.

People are interesting and fun to make people love him and always wanted to be close and want to see it and want to interact with it. People who have fun like a charm and have a priceless wealth.

In contrast to the beauty and intelligence which in essence is something given by God (given), interesting and fun is something that can be studied and stimulated in every activity of our daily life (daily activity).
For that there are a few tips that need to be followed and done if we want to have an attractive personality and quality.

TIP-trick is as follows:

1. Manners (POLITENESS)
Always courteous and kind to other people cause us to be interesting and fun for the other person. When you meet with anyone we should "warm" and friendly to him. Scolds a sweet and warm greetings, such as: Hello ... what khabar, Good Morning ..., Good afternoon ..., etc. we must always say complete with facial expressions and body language that reflects a sincere and to represent it all. On the first time we know we should say: "I am delighted to meet you ... Anytime we talk again ..., etc., etc..

People who want to look nice, fun and attention people are the ones who would never hurt and wounded hearts and feelings of others. When the liver is injured then the person will be very difficult to be cured within a short time probably hurt even turned into a smoldering fire that revenge may at any time like a neutron bomb exploded violently.

2. Hospitality (hospitality)
The principle of "Touch the heart", should be held and understood very well in order to create interesting and fun IMPRESSIONS on ourselves.

Some things to put into practice with courtesy and respect Hospitality:

Embrace admonished Sapa People: "There is no thing as comfortable as the words of welcome given by others with a sincere and cheerful tone."

Smile To the People: "There are 72 muscles it takes to frown, but it only takes 14 muscles to smile."

Call people by name: "Music is the most beautiful and serene in anyone's ears is the sound of his own ...".
Be Friendly: "If you want friends, be ... friendly"

THE VALUES OF SMILE:

* It costs nothing but create much.
* It enriches Those WHO WHO receive without impoverishing Those give.
* It Happens in a flash the memory of it BUT Sometimes Lasts forever.
* None are so rich they want cans That along without it, and none are so poor but are Richer for smile.
* It create happiness at home, foster goodwill in a business and is the countersign of friends.
* Yet it Can not be Bought, begged, borrowed or Stolen, for it is something That is no earthly good to anybody till it is given away!
* And if it ever Happens That Some Should people be too Tired to give you a smile, why not leave one of yours?
* For nobody needs a smile so much as Those WHO have none left to give.

3. RESPECT (RESPECTFUlL)
If we treat others as we want diperlakuakn may cause tension, because other people may not like the ways we are. Conversely, if we treat others the way they want to be treated as so essentially we have been captures the essence of our true self flexibility.

Respect for others, it means learning to treat other people differently according to their needs and their confidence levels rather than by the needs and confidence levels of our own. This can lead to understanding and acceptance among the Moral individuals and groups. It also shows someone PERSONAL INTEGRITY.

Respect for others, perhaps more easily understood as: "the search for common interests are shared and then worked together to achieve win-win outcomes (win-win)."

4. FULL ATTENTION (ATTENTIVE)
Caring attitude means being aware of "what is going on in our environment." A caring attitude with the ability to read situations implied (implicit). It can be started from the simple notice when someone was bored and felt that now was not the time to convey our ideas.

Means being attentive to empty ourselves of thoughts ourselves subjectively (capable of seeing the glass eyes of others) and open the insights and thoughts to want to see things outside ourselves.

Caring person who also knows when to act and when he can not act. People who belong attentively will play in the event: trends, patterns, variety and opportunity. A caring person would have a good open attitude toward incoming information, ideas or suggestions from others.

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