LOYALTY TO HUSBAND WIFE

Firm with an honest loyalty is the most important female character. A story says, that Asma 'bint' Umais is the wife of Ja'far ibn Abi Talib, then became the wife of Abu Bakr after him, then after that he married by 'Ali quoted' anhu. One time a second son, Muhammad ibn Ja'far Muhammad ibn Abi Bakr and boasts one another. Each said, "I am better than you, my dad is better than your dad." Hearing this, 'Ali said, "Decide the case between them, O Asma'." He said, "I do not see more Arab youth better than Ja'far and I do not see the old man is better than Abu Bakr. "'Ali said," You do not leave us a little bit. If you say other than that you say, surely I'm angry with you. "Asma 'said," Of the three, thou art the least of them to choose "[1]

Abu Bakr quoted 'anhu intestate so that Asma' bint 'Umais quoted' anhuma bathing him (his death). He did so, while he was in a state of fasting. Then he asked the Muhajirin who came, "I fasted and now is a very cold day, whether I shall (should) take a bath?" They replied, "No." Before Abu Bakr quoted 'anhu stressed to him that (when bathing him) he not in a state of fasting, saying, "It makes you stronger."

Then he remembered the oath of Abu Bakr in the late afternoon, so he asked for water and drank as he says, "By Allah, I do not want to accompany his oath on this day to break them" [2]

When the wicked sinners again surrounded the worship leader and "the victim of murder" of the sinner, 'Uthman ibn' Affan quoted 'anhu and they attacked him with a sword, then his wife (Na'ilah bint al-Furafishah) advanced to face him to become patron him from death. The ruthless killer who is not ignoring this woman's honor and they continue to cut 'Uthman with swords, (but the wife deflected) by clenching his fingers, till his fingers dropped from his hand. Holding his wife and fell with him, then they kill 'Uthman [3].

When the Commander of the Faithful conditions was quoted 'anhu asked her to marry, she refused saying, "By Allah, no one can replace' Uthman (as my husband) forever." [4]

Among the many signs of devotion to their husbands shalihah woman after his death that they had not remarried. Nothing remained to be addressed but to their wives in Heaven "[5]

From Maimun ibn Mihran, he said: "Mu'awiyah ibn Abi Sufyan quoted 'anhu woo Ummud Darda', but he refused to marry him saying, 'I heard Abud Darda' said: 'I heard the Prophet sallallaahu' alaihi wa salam said.

"It means: The woman with her husband the last one, 'or he says,' for her husband's last" [6]

From 'Ikrimah that Asma' bint Abi Bakr became the wife of az-Zubayr ibn al-'Awwam, and her hard against him. Then Asma came to his father to complain about it to him, he said, "O my daughter, be patient! For, if a woman has a husband who salih, then he left her to die, then she did not marry after his death, they gathered in Heaven "[7]

From Jubayr bin Nufair, from Ummud Darda 'that he said to Abud Darda', "Indeed you have been propose to my parents in the world, and they married you with me. And now, I'm asking you to marry to you in the hereafter. "Abud Darda 'said," Well, do not get married after me. "When the conditions was ask for her hand, and he told me about what had happened, hence conditions was saying," Fast! [8]

When Sulayman ibn 'Abd Malik got out and he accompanied bin Sulaiman bin Abi al-Muhlib Shafrah from Damascus for a vacation, they passed a cemetery. Suddenly there was a woman sitting on a state funeral with weeping. And the wind blows so that reveal the veil from her face, as though he uncovered overcast sun. So we stood in a state of amazement. We looked at him, then Ibn Muhlib said to him, "O female slave of Allah, do you want to be the wife of Commander of the Faithful?" He looked at both, and then looked grave, and said:

"Do not you ask about my desire
For those who desire to be buried this, O young man
Actually I'm embarrassed to him while the soil is among us
As much as I embarrassed him when she saw me "

So, we went in a state of amazement. [9]

Among the examples are worth mentioning as a major example of these women was Fatima bint 'Abd Malik bin Marwan. Commander of the Faithful "Fatima bint 'Abd Malik bin Marwan this at the time of marriage, her father has enormous power over Syria, Iraq, Hijaz, Yemen, Iran, Qafqasiya, Qarim and areas behind the river to the east of Bukhara and Janwah, also Egypt, Sudan , Libya, Tunisia, Algeria, far western and western Spain. Fatima is not the only daughter of the Great Caliph, even her brother is also a leading four caliphs of Islam: al-Walid ibn 'Abd Malik Sulaiman ibn' Abd Malik, Yazid ibn 'Abd Malik and Hisham ibn' Abd Malik. More than that she is the wife of the Caliph of Islam, known leading after the first four caliphs of Islam, the Commander of the Faithful 'Umar ibn' Abd 'Aziz.

Daughter of the caliph, and the caliph was his grandfather
Brother of the caliph, and the caliph was her husband

Noble woman who is the daughter of the caliph and the brother of the four Caliphs was out of his father's house into her husband's house on the day she was trafficked to him by bringing the most expensive property owned by a woman on this earth in the form of jewelry. That said, in between two pendant jewelry is famous in the history of Mary and often disenandungkan the penya'ir. A pair of pendant is just the equivalent of a treasure.

When her husband, Commander of the Faithful, ordered him to bring all her jewelry to the Baitul Mal, she did not resist and did not deny it one bit.

This great woman-more than that, when her husband, Commander of the Faithful 'Umar ibn' Abdul 'Aziz's death left her without leaving anything for herself and her children, then board the Baitul Mal to come to him and said, "jewelry, O sayyidati, still remain as usual, and I consider it a mandate of the (deposit) for you and I keep it to this day. And now, I came to ask your permission to bring (back) jewelry (to you). "

Fatima gave the answer that the jewelry has been dihibahkannya to the Baitul Mal to the interests of the Muslims, because to comply Commander of the Faithful. Then he said, "Am I going to obey him during his lifetime, and I mendurhakainya after his death? [10]

[Copied from the Book of Alif Ilal Isyratun Nisaa Minal Yaa, Indonesian Edition Complete Guide From A To Z Marriages, Author, Osama bin Kamal Abu Hafs bin Abdir Razzaq, Interpreter Saikhu Ahmad, Ibn Reader Publishers Katsair]
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Note Foote
[1]. Ibni Thabaqaat Sa'ad (II/2080), Abu al-Hilyah Nu'aim in (II/36), Siyar A'laamin Nubalaa '(II/286); al-Ishaabah (VII/491).
[2]. Ibni Thabaqaat Sa'ad (VIII/208).
[3]. Audatul Hijaab (II/533), and to ad-Durrul dinisbatkan Mantsuur FII Thabaqaat Rabaatil Khuduur (p. 517).
[4]. Siyar A'laamin Nubalaa '(VII/343).
[5]. 'Audatul Hijaab (II/534).
[6]. Genealogy as-ash-Shahiihah, Shaykh al-Albani (no. 1281), saheeh.
[7]. Genealogy as-ash-Shahiihah, Shaykh al-Albani (III/276), saheeh.
[8]. Siyar A'laamin Nubalaa '(IV/278).
[9]. Akhbarun Nisa '(p. 138), and this book dinisbatkan mistakenly delivered to Ibn Qayyim al-Jawziyya. The truth that he never wrote the book.
[10]. 'Audatul Hijaab (II/538)

Ibroh:
Subhan Allah, Allah has given us models are so noble, so great ... May we be sholehah woman, the wife of a senantaiasa sholehah obedient to our husbands, may God open the door and door ridhoNya paradise for us all .. Amen

Teruntuk sister who loved God, Allah forgives all Muslims and believers in this world, and make us all become hamba2 are always cautious and struggling to ridhoNya ..

Teruntuk my beloved husband,
Jazakallah khoiron husband Katheer, may Allah make our families as your wish, I hope Virgin can educate our sons to be the son of a pious, qurrota'ayyun, and orang2 a cautious leader. And may Allah gather us as a family in the paradise of God, as your note to me, O my husband, Amin ..